Dear Discouraged

The righteous cry out, and the Lord hears them; he delivers them from all their troubles.
The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit.

Psalm 34:17-18

Dear Discouraged,

I heard your discouragement and in our moment of shared brokenness we had nothing to offer each other. Instead, we discovered something—discouragement grows in isolation.

But God has something for else for us.

Psalm 34:17-18 says, “The righteous cry out, and the Lord hears them.” This phrase is plural, not singular. “Cry out” is translated from tsa`aq. It means to shriek; to proclaim (an assembly). It can also be translated as a Hebrew idiom that means to call together, cry (out), or gather (selves) (together).

Jesus himself told us, “If two of you on earth agree about anything they ask for, it will be done for them by my Father in heaven.”

It’s interesting to note that he told us this during a lesson on dealing with sin.


Dealing with sin, both ours and the sin of others, can be discouraging. And isolation will only nurture discouragement and confusion. But there is good news.

God is not a God of confusion. He is a God of peace. 1 Corinthians 14:33

God has not abandoned us to struggle in the dark alone. He has directed us to confess our own sins to other Christians. He gives us procedures to follow for sin against us or against others.

God has given us everything we need for battle. He directs our way and prays over our path.

He cautions and directs us. Are we listening?

“Indeed God speaks once, or twice, yet no one notices it. In a dream, a vision of the night, when sound sleep falls on men, while they slumber in their beds.” Job 33:14-15

He speaks into our spirit that very moment is a Jesus moment. Every struggle is an opportunity to live as Jesus lived. Every confrontation is a chance to fulfill Luke 6:31. “Treat others the same way you want them to treat you.”

He speaks into our spirit that very moment is a Jesus moment. Every struggle is an opportunity to live as Jesus lived. #devotional #christianlife Click To Tweet

Let us not apply a superficial understanding to Jesus’ words. Can we truly examine the thought? How do we want others to treat us?

Do we desire to be treated with honor and dignity? “Honor all people, love the brotherhood, fear God, honor the king.” 1 Peter 2:17

Do we want to be treated with truth or flattery? “He who rebukes a man will afterward find more favor than he who flatters with the tongue.” Proverbs 28:23

Do we want to be treated with kindness or harshness? “A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger.” Proverbs 15:1

Do we want to be treated as responsible adults or as infants who are only capable of sitting in their mess until someone else cleans it up? “For though by this time you ought to be teachers, you have need again for someone to teach you the elementary principles of the oracles of God, and you have come to need milk and not solid food. For everyone who partakes only of milk is not accustomed to the word of righteousness, for he is an infant. But solid food is for the mature, who because of practice have their senses trained to discern good and evil.” Hebrews 5:12-14

As we look inward, consider Paul’s words to Timothy. Paul told Timothy to be diligent and to present himself approved to God as a workman who does not need to be ashamed, accurately handling the word of truth. 

Dear Discouraged,

Are we looking at every problem as an opportunity to employ diligence? To show by the beautiful blending of effort and faith that we have nothing to be ashamed of?

Are we looking at every problem as an opportunity to employ diligence? To show by the beautiful blending of effort and faith that we have nothing to be ashamed of? #faith #devotional Click To Tweet

Can we move from confusion to an accurate handling of the word of truth?

In diligence, maturity, and preparation can we move from being confused in situations to accurately handling the word of truth, regardless of emotion or surroundings or circumstances?

Yes, we’ve lost some battles. The enemy’s attacks were strategic and powerful. We took our eyes off the prize and succumbed to the fight. We fell into confusion.

But God was there.

“This poor man cried, and the Lord heard him and saved him out of all his troubles. The angel of the Lord encamps around those who fear Him, and rescues them.” Psalm 34:6-7

The Lord is picking us back up and saying, “Be strong in MY might.”

He is next to us, our most trustworthy armor bearer. He places the sword back in our hand and readjusts our breastplate. He makes our feet to stand firm again. He whispers in our ear to set our eyes back on the prize and reminds us who our fight is really against.


What is the prize we are fighting for? It isn’t health. It isn’t prosperity. It isn’t happiness. It isn’t restored relationships. Those things will fall into place if the Lord wills when we put him first.

The prize is holiness. The prize is Jesus’ face. The prize is eternal glory. The prize is finishing this race that has been set before us.

It’s not a sprint. It’s a marathon. Maybe right now it feels like trudging through mud. And in the middle of the muck we can forget who our struggle is really against.

“For our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the powers, against the world forces of this darkness, against the spiritual forces of wickedness in the heavenly places.” Ephesians 6:12

Jesus didn’t forget. When Peter’s words threatened confusion and tried to derail his race, our Lord had clear eyes on the problem’s source.

But He [Jesus] turned and said to Peter, “Get behind Me, Satan! You are a stumbling block to Me; for you are not setting your mind on God’s interests, but man’s.” Matthew 16:23

Let us see with Jesus’ eyes, the real enemy, so that we can stay the course and set our mind on God’s interests. Let us become more like Christ. Let us love one another as Christ loved us, laying down our life. Click To Tweet

“So, as those who have been chosen of God, holy and beloved, put on a heart of compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness and patience; bearing with one another, and forgiving each other, whoever has a complaint against anyone; just as the Lord forgave you, so also should you.” Colossians 3:12-13


What encouragement can we give one another when we are tempted to lose hope?

In Ephesians 3 Paul writes to the church at Ephesus, telling them not to lose heart as they see his tribulations on their behalf. Then he prays the most beautiful prayer for them.

“For this reason I bow my knees before the Father, from whom every family in heaven and on earth derives its name, that He would grant you, according to the riches of His glory, to be strengthened with power through His Spirit in the inner man, so that Christ may dwell in your hearts through faith; and that you, being rooted and grounded in love, may be able to comprehend with all the saints what is the breadth and length and height and depth, and to know the love of Christ which surpasses knowledge, that you may be filled up to all the fullness of God.”

Paul’s tribulation was for their glory. Perhaps our struggle, if surrendered to God, will be worked out for someone else’s glory. And we, in our moment of discouragement can pray with Paul that our brothers and/or sisters will be strengthened with power, that Christ will dwell in their hearts, that they will be rooted and grounded in love.

What an amazing hope. Our holiness for their glory.

Paul ends his prayer with this:

“Now to Him who is able to do far more abundantly beyond all that we ask or think, according to the power that works within us, to Him be the glory in the church and in Christ Jesus to all generations forever and ever. Amen.”


Stand firm. Don’t lose heart. God is able to do far above all we can imagine—according to the power that works within us. Are we submitted to him?

“Therefore, laying aside falsehood, speak truth each one of you with his neighbor, for we are members of one another. Be angry, and yet do not sin; do not let the sun go down on your anger, and do not give the devil an opportunity…Let no unwholesome word proceed from your mouth, but only such a word as is good for edification according to the need of the moment, so that it will give grace to those who hear. Do not grieve the Holy Spirit of God, by whom you were sealed for the day of redemption. Let all bitterness and wrath and anger and clamor and slander be put away from you, along with all malice. Be kind to one another, tender-hearted, forgiving each other, just as God in Christ also has forgiven you.”

As we walk as Children of the Light together, we walk out of isolation and into hope and glory.

13 thoughts on “Dear Discouraged”

  1. I have repeated to myself so many times that our God is NOT a God of confusion. That has brought me such peace and helped in making so many decisions. This was a beautiful article and great reminder to keep walking forward, trusting God that His purpose is good.

  2. As I go through a time of arthritis pain, I get discouraged easily. I can’t type on the computer as often. I can’t hold books as much as I want to hold them, etc. Yet, even through discouragement, I know He is with me and He loves me. All is well with my soul. 🙂

    1. Thank you for sharing that with me, Melissa. I wasn’t aware that you struggled with arthritis. I’ll be praying for strength for you and encouragement in your life. Thank you for sharing your ministry with all of us even through your pain.

  3. Thank you, dear Stephanie, for this Biblically based truth and encouragement for our souls! I love how you wove together so beautifully our questions, thoughts and needs with God’s answers from His Word. May His Voice speak a louder word over our sin, discouragement and defeat! Jesus is victor! And we stand once more by His power alone!

  4. Discouragement always seems so close by when things don’t go our way. Our faith wants our Jesus to be the genie in the bottle to grant us every wish. Someday, in heaven, we will understand more fully.

  5. ‘Dear Encourager. Thank you for adding clarity and perspective when I planned to disengage. I had no hope because I didn’t recognize the truth of God’s care and promises.’

    These are uplifting verses and Bible stories, Stephanie. I especially like Ephesians 3. I think of Gideon, that great war hero who thought nothing of himself or his family, and gave up all hope. He accepted defeat and believed the lies of the enemy, but God saw in his immediate future bravery, deliverance, and victory.

    Thank you for this encouragement, Stephanie.

  6. Love this: “What is the prize we are fighting for? It isn’t health. It isn’t prosperity. It isn’t happiness. It isn’t restored relationships. Those things will fall into place if the Lord wills when we put him first.

    “The prize is holiness. ”
    Amen and alleluia! God bless!

  7. Beautiful Stephanie on unpacking what our true goal should be. Satan definitely gets us distracted, but discouragement comes when we focus the wrong direction. Thank you for these verses!

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